has the wrong idea about jealousy. People think it is healthy, and tell themselves all these weird things, these “I am better than her in ___, ___, and ____ ways, though!!”, these strange things.
People go to odd extents, try and control their partner, violate their partner’s privacy, all of these strange and tiring efforts… just to avoid feeling that jealousy jealousy jealousy.
Some people try to invoke it, some encourage it….
I say you are all so wrong! jealousy is the very opposite of love. Jealousy is wanting another’s life, or life itself to revolve around you and your desires and needs and wishes. Jealousy is the lack of concern for your partner’s heart, your partner’s needs, his or her life and relationships with others. All of that pushes true love, true caring and compassion far far away.
I am not immune to jealousy’s sticky throes either… but I try and remember these things when I feel its burning touch. MORE ON THIS LATER.
but feel free to message me if youd rather discuss it NOW! :D